A while ago, M. Rodriguez posted a series of questions to ask Christians (theists). He/she had previously posted questions for atheists.
I am no longer a theist, so perhaps I shouldn’t answer. I will respond based on how I believe I would have responded back when I was a theist. Note, however, that was a long time ago. I will quote the questions before answering. But I may quote in an abbreviated form. For the full original question, please see the original post: “The Christian (Theist) Challenge.”
1. Do you feel like Religion, God and The Bible conflict?
In a word, Yes. I won’t elaborate much , because some of the details will come out in some of the other answers. I’ll note, however, that what stood out most clearly was that organized religion (i.e. the Churches) were far from following the teachings of Jesus.
2. If God told you kill someone, (And you are 100% it’s God). Would you kill that person? Why or Why Not?
I would never have been 100%. During the time that I was a theist, I was filled with doubt.
3. Who created God;
Man created God, in man’s own image. And when I came to realize that, it was near the end of my period as a theist.
4. If you believe the Bible is the inspired Word of God; do you believe it to be inerrant or infallible?
I did believe that the Bible was the inspired word of God. I never believed that it was inerrant nor that it was infallible. The errors are too plain to see. Right there in Genesis 1, a false account of reality is presented.
The idea that the Bible is inerrant is absurd. God might be able to inspire man to write. But if God grants man free will, then God cannot control the words that are written. And if the writer, inspired though he might be, is exercising free will, then the saying “To err is human” reminds of how unlikely it could be that the Bible would be inerrant.
5. In the Bible their are stories of God telling the Israelites to kill innocent women & children and children being punished for the sins of their father. Is this morally right or morally justifiable?
That was something that always troubled me. I never did settle it. But, indirectly, it led to the end of my theism. If God is outside of time and is all knowing, then the nature of God should be constant. Yet, what became clear on reading the Bible, including the kind of stories you mention, was that the nature of God was ever changing (or evolving). It did occur to me that one possible explanation was that man created God, and as human culture evolved, so did the kind of God that man would create.
6. If God is perfect, how can something imperfect come out of something that is PERFECT? Did God make a mistake?
I never saw that as a problem. If God granted us free will, then that would be enough explanation to account for our imperfections.
7. If a Christian goes into a forest and gets lost. And he prays to God to be saved and not die. Does a God still here him? How do know? And, how can you be sure?
Somehow, it always seemed to me that prayer was like talking to a brick wall. I tried to pray regularly, but I always had the sense that nobody was listening.
8. If you were to die, and when you go before God; it’s some other God you have never seen or heard of nor worshiped? What would you do?
I never thought about that during the time that I was a theist, so I shall skip that question.
9. What is something that would convince you that Christianity is wrong and that there is no God? (If your answer is NOTHING, than please explain WHY?)
The problem for me, all along, was finding something that would convince me that Christianity was right. And I could never find that. Perhaps, most serious, was that the accounts of the resurrection were vague and unconvincing. They could just as easily be the drifting thoughts of someone who was distraught at the crucifixion.
10. This is a quote by the atheist Richard Dawkins…”We are all atheists about most of the gods that societies have ever believed in. Some of us just go ONE god further.“-Richard Dawkins.
I never came up with that question. But a similar one arose. What kept me a theist, in spite of the doubts that I have described in other answers, was the thought that there are many millions of Christians, and they cannot all be wrong. But then I happened to think of the Mormons. And there are many Mormons, too (though not nearly as many as Christians). Yet it seemed obvious to me the Mormon beliefs were entirely made up. And if all of those Mormons could be wrong, then all of those Christians could be wrong.
And that realization pretty much ended my period of theism.